How To Be Sexy (Kinda)

I don't know about you but I love myself a little bit of sexy. 
I say "a little bit" because I haven't mastered the whole "a lotta bit of sexy" thing as of yet. 
Just wait til' I'm 80 and I'm sure I'll have it down. 

I think it is oh so important for women to feel good...mentally,physically, everything-ly. 
I've learned this trick--if you actually get up, get showered, make your face presentable, and throw on some clothes that have a little bit of spice to em', you may feel better about yourself.
This is why you may see me with a pound of make-up, dress, and heels on, while blowing my nose like crazy. The uglier I feel on the inside, the more I compensate on the outside. 99% of the time it works.
The other 1% sweatpants, dark under eye circles, and staying in bed feels pretty dang good. 

Anyhow--I think we all have our favorite little features. You should think about what your favorite features are from time to time (trust me--they will change depending on how much macaroni and cheese you consumed the month prior). To those favorite features I say--SHOW EM OFF. 
Unless your favorite features are your privates. In which case I say HIDE THAT BABY UP. 
As for me? I love my collar bones and other nearby things attached. This would include my shoulders and back. So what do I do? I buy things that expose ALL of it. Such a little hussy I know. 
The more my shoulders come out to play, the brighter my smile seems to be. 
Or maybe that's just the PicMonkey teeth whitening feature...

Moral of the story of this: Pay attention to the parts of your body that you like. Purchase items that show those features off. Wear it with confidence. Start kicking ___ and taking numbers. The end. 

Thankfully miss chic knows how to play up my favorites features well. 

high waisted a line mini skirt // rose gold necklace
You know what else miss chic knows how to do well? Partner with me for Mondays with miss chic. 
You may remember these from the past--every Monday in the month of March I will be showing off one (or in today's case..three) items and then offer you a special deal on em'. I'd like to think of it as aiding in your sexiness project. You're welcome. 
Today's deal on all of the above is this: YELLOW5 for $5 off the top (both colors apply) or mini skirt. 
You can purchase one shirt, both shirts, skirt only, or heck--get all three and be sexy 24/7. 
Just remember--the more you buy, the more you save ;) 
Now go get your sex on
I meant sexiness. 
linking this post up with The Pleated Poppy
Today's featured sponsor is Rachel from Simple.Little.Joys. 
Rachel has one true legit lifestyle blog and makes sure to hold true to that. How do you stay true to a lifestyle  blog you may ask? Well, you start by actually writing about your life. The highs, the lows, the everythings in between. Rachel does a fabulous job of this through documenting her weight loss journey (home girl has lost over 80 pounds..uhhh maze), by sharing her latest DIY project (I mean how cute are these wooden door signs?), and is not afraid to share her love for Christ
Rachel is truly an inspiration and is a perfect example of what a lot of hard work, persistence, and passion can do. If you would like to find a happy little space on the Internet, I suggest you start here. 



  1. You are just too cute! I love this post!


  2. OMG I LOVE THAT TOP! Check out my looks for the week: http://magsmind22.blogspot.com/2013/03/looks-for-week.html


  3. Such a fun blog! Glad I stopped over and decided to stay awhile! Too bad it's 1:00 in the afternoon, otherwise I would grab the glass of wine you recommended! :) Stop over if you get a chance - www.designyourdwelling.blogspot.com

  4. Oooh lala! Lol
    It's such a great reminder to think about all the things you love about yourself!
    Love this

  5. Yeeeah! I love doing this. Or wearing things which makes the bit you like a bit less look amazing- like thick black tights with black heels always make me feel super confident about my legs!! x

  6. Sexay sexay! But first I need to learn to walk in heels- I own enough of them after all. Love the pink shoes btw!


  7. Love those shirt, girl! Show off those collar bones and (sexy)back of yours. I seriously needed to read this today. Bad self-esteem has been rearing it's ugly head lately, but this made me think of the positive aspects of...me! Have a wonderful day, miss :)

    - Marissa @ Just Being Marissa

  8. Great advice. I could definitely learn from you. Unfortunately, I'm more of the "I feel crappy so I'll show the world just how crappy I feel" variety, which does nothing for my mood. Your pictures are gorgeous.

  9. Erin, you look GORGEOUS!!!!

  10. this is so cute! love the shoulders bared!
    kw ladies in navy

  11. whatever lady... you definitely mastered the "a LOTTA bit of sexy" look. You are gorgeous!

  12. If I wore that top my son would most definitely pull it right down - lol. You look adorable - but this momma needs straps! :)

  13. You are gorgeoussssss, seriously it's not fair. Love that skirt on youuu!

  14. sexxxxy lady! you look too cute!

  15. Woooo this is quite possibly the best day of my life! Miss Chic now ships to NZ!!! I love this outfit and totally am gonna go order the lot!!!!

  16. GIrl your sexy!! i love these blouses! you look so good!!I am going to have to try to get my sexy on too!!

  17. love that shirt. looking pretty good, lady!

  18. I love how you paired the flowy shirt with the leather skirt! Super cute!
    Filiz, Light & Sweet

  19. A girl after my own heart! My absolutely favorite feature of a person it when they have a nice collarbone...weird I know, but hey, girl can't help it ;) I def love those shirts too! A nice well defining collar bone shirt!

  20. Okay, I have to say it...you remind me of Olivia Newton John from the last scene in Grease in the little black top/black pants number!! ;) You're the one that I want....ooh-ooh-ooh!! Are you too young or I am I too old to make reference to this movie?

  21. You look a-maze-ing in these photos, love them! Did you go back and get the pink heels? I died over the orange and they were sold out. Nooooooo. I did get the pink, though and love them. Your pictures are so great, love the photography and how you style the looks:)

  22. woohoo lookin' good! i feel like i've finally learned my fave / least fave body parts and am so much better at dressing for my body type. it makes a world of difference!
    -- jackiejade.blogspot.com

  23. I love it all. Girl...you're more than a little sexy in all of that. I esp. love the pink shoes. Wish I could wear heels b/c i'd have lots of em esp the color hot pink

  24. I loved reading this! Such an empowering post - I'm already making a list of things I love about myself. ;) Aaaand I'm really loving those outfits!

  25. I LOVE that white top! Amen, sista. You knocked it out of the park, again, with this post.

    My favorite clothing is basically sweat pants and a Tee, but as far as the pants go, I usually wear a cute/fitted pair, versus something frumpy.

    For me, a little mascara and a big ol' smile go a long, long way!

  26. I LOVE that white top! But I wish I can pull that off. I feel that kind of top will make me look fatter because I have a short torso. IDK. Anyway, you look adorable!

    Kisty / The Style Mermaid

  27. Girl, you are right about those shoulders! N-I-C-E! :)

  28. love your heels--- i got the same ones from target but in green- love them!


  29. Love those tops! I've seen them all around our town!! You do love adorable in them as well!!

  30. Supa' sexy! OwOW! Gotta love Miss Chic.

  31. you look so cute!! oh i mean sexy!! :) love it!

    xo, Courtney

  32. super sexy!

    Here are mine if you get a second to take a peak:

  33. those tops are so fun! love how it's not too revealing yet sexy :)

    C's Evolution of Style

    $1000 Visa Gift Card Giveaway

  34. This is HOT! That top is so sexy, I love it!

  35. Aw, Erin, I really like this post! I agree that there are those moments when you just want to feel your best and a lot of that has to do with looking your best. I can't help but feel like a 12 ;] when I get all dolled up for a night out. Actually, because I'm generally seen without make-up, the whole process of using eyeliner, eyeshadow, lipstick, and lip gloss is such a fun time, and I love the occasions when I wear them.

    I love those magenta shoes, you look fab in those fits, and your do have a sexy collar bone area! Rock it lady!

    Still smirking about "hide that baby up."



I read and appreciate every one of your comments. Thanks for stopping by my space and sharing a piece of yourself on this huge ole internet. I meant that in the least creepy way possible. I'm just good at making everything awkward. Anyhow, thank you for your comments. They make me smile :)